Sunday, December 28, 2008


An old uni friend of mine has finally found her partner.


But not all love stories begins all loving and nice of course.

U know, the term they call spanar? Or another word for it; third party?

This is my take on it:

That feeling sometimes just come, with or without your approval (approval? lol....)
But sometimes too that other person, is attached to another.

So what then? Do u fight (fight? geez... pardon me for lack of a better word) for your happiness? Or do u forgo yours so the couple can continue their happiness?

If the feeling is a one way, it's obvious u shouldn't go on of cos (duh...)

But if it's two ways, then the dilemma comes..

But now is, if it's two ways, and the couple feelings for each other has died off, so wat now?

My take: Shouldn't feel guilty or anything ler... I guess u're not intervening directly and breaking them apart. They ARE breaking up already anyway.

Naturally one will feel uneasy on starting a relationship on such a platform (my vocab is dying...). But i guess time will tell, if u guys will be happy together or not.

For me personally, i wouldn't do any spanaring at all. Cos it's one of those rare things that i believed which, 'What goes around comes around.'
When she was sharing it with me, I too have worries if this guy's gonna have a change of heart again in the future, which was worrying her too.

Nay, again time will tell la. In the meantime just enjoy it :D

Sigh... Honestly, i feel a mixture of feelings when she unveils (unveils? wtf of a word??) this news.

I feel happy, that she's finally found her partner.

But i feel sad and a tinge of jealousy too, lol, which is really complicated..
Heck, i don't even know if i should say it here.

Maybe next time, hope this dear friend of mine will visit this page some time.